Me and my boyfriend argue ALOT.

but we love each other alot. But people say we're too much alike and thats why we butt heads so much? We both want to have the last word,and he doesnt know when to admit hes wrong. What to do?

Final Results

1st.
Stay together
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60%
2nd.
Break up
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40%

Comments:

You really are not supposed to fight this much in a relationship. Romances are supposed to be fun and carefree, not filled with screaming and pouting. Move on. CV
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
talk it out tell himhes wrong tell him u dont like fighting with him and if he gets to outta hand threaten him ....but not like im gonna kill u just u know like u make me so mad somtimes im not sure its worth it it'll sober hi right up just make sure ur ready cuz it'll hurt him at first
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
You should stick with him, but try to find a way to communicate more effectively. Never bring up the past. Never say hurtful things. Try to work on solutions. Matty
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
You need to stay together, but try really hard to work on the relationship. You will not get what you want 100% of the time but each of you should be willing to work together and respect each other at the same time. JaneGrant
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
My wife and I never fight. That doesn't mean that we don't disagree, it's just that when a couple fights, things are said in anger that the person doesn't really mean but once it's said, the hurt can't be reversed. Instead we talk. She gives her reasons and I give mine, then we figure out how to make it work out. It always does. During the talks, I'm never mad at her, nor her at me. Nor do we press the other to admit that they were wrong. We agree to a solution and, together, we proceed. Compared to fighting, it sounds boring but it has worked for many years. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
give up and dump him
Added by Stephen Hardisty - about 1 year ago
Its good that you guys fight a lot. It means your communicating and such. If you had nothing to fight about that would mean you'd have nothing to talk about. Just try not to lose your temper too often and make sure you have some quality time without fighting and you guys should be alright.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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