Lying ex

my bf recently broke up with me,&since he's been sharing details about our sexual life with our his friends,some I haven't even met. &to top it off, most of the things he's saying are lies. Stuff like fingering me in the cinemas,or giving him head in the cinemas. What do I do? How can i make itstop?

Final Results

1st.
Confront him (bad because people'll just laugh atme)
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71%
2nd.
Fight back...? Shame him like he's shamed me?
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29%
3rd.
Just let it go (idk if i CAN let it go...)
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0%

Comments:

If you confront him, do you think he will stop? If you just let it go, will he stop? What about escalating it by fighting back. Do you think that would stop him? I doubt if any of these tactics would stop or even slow him down. You have legal recourse in that he is guilty of slander and/or "public disclosure of private facts". In other words, invasion of privacy. If he is publishing this false information say, on Facebook, then he is guilty of libel as well. These are your legal, and most affective options. VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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