love life vs best mate

2 month ago my nest mate and her boyfriend broke up due to her cheating! recently her now ex has been texting me and messaging me saying how much he likes me! i agreed to meet him and realised that not only did we have loads in common but we have great chemistry.. i dont know what to do

Final Results

1st.
i agree to give him a chance and risk losing my best mate
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56%
2nd.
i tell him no and possibly lose my chance at true love
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44%

Comments:

First, you will have more than one shot at true love, so don't worry about this one. Second, you just can't go out with a friends ex -- even if the break up was her fault. Sierra
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
You could always tell you're friend and try to convience her so she would be oke with it. She drove him away with her cheating. If you really like him, try it. You can always try. Ed
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
I agree with points 1, 2 and 4 in the last comment. Point 3 is a little too girly for me, I guess. Since she cheated on him, she, in effect, threw him away. There is no reason for you not to snatch him up. It doesn't sound like he did anything terribly wrong. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
1. She lost any claim on him when they broke up. 2. I don't believe in ex's being off limits. See point #1. 3. The heart wants what the heart wants. It may sound cliche, but it's true. 4. Make sure you're not a rebound or a form of revenge for him.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago

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