Love is it real. my boyfriend told me not to trust him

my bf cheated on me he told me he was drunk.so i forgave him, another time i seen him with another chick. he told me she gave him a date rape. so forgave him the other night i see him and he sucking butain, i tried 2 get it of him it didnt work, i told him i was over the relationship

Final Results

1st.
was it the right chose?
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94%
2nd.
i love him to much should i go back
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6%

Comments:

It's the right choice. You gotta stay strong. Don't change your mind now.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
I know it's hard, the good points seemed to overtake the bads... but I'd get the hell outta there. There's no excuse for those things. He is untrustworthy, (likely a liar). A cheetah can't change his spots. It's disgusting behaviour and I would be thoroughly ashamed to be seen with someone like that. Let him ruin himself, and get out before he ruins you.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
look.. obviously, he doesn't give a shit for any girl if he's going to cheat this bad! Seriously, L.E.T. H.I.M. G.O.!!!! You're just wasting your time with him! Until you think he is serious, then get rid of him! Hell, you WILL find a better guy than him before he gets better, trust me, I know! Hope this helps! - Kassidy
Added by Kassidy Payne - about 1 year ago
Your guy sounds like a douche bag. Good for you for leaving him, it WAS the right choice, don't ever go back to him.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
DONT go back to him!!! i went through a simmilar relationship and trust me!! get rid of him and forget about him hes not worth the air you breath!
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
Move on ;) Once a cheater most likely always a cheater!
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
ARE U STUPID!!!!! dont go back thats just pathetic.... u obviously mean nothing to him. there is no excuse for cheating!!! date rape as fuckin if! of course love is real or at least the feeling... u need to find someone who doesnt make u post things on here because ur unsure... find someone who doesnt make u doubt the relationship who can stay sober and loyal
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
If you've caught him in a situation more than once then you definately need to break it off, otherwise you'll doubt his loyalty for the rest of the relationship and you deserve someone that appreciates you more than that loser.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
don't stay with a guy that cheats on you. it doesn't matter what excuses he makes up, because there are no excuses. you deserve better!
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
i dunno hun i am trying to make something along the line of the same choice with my ex hun sorry would help if i could but i know its not going to help with me giving you anwsers when i have the same type of problem just he didnt do the whole butain thing and only came clean after the girl told me
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
I think date rape only makes people not remeber anything n weak. I dont think its gets u hard. Thank god you ditched him sweetie, I was starting to think you were stupid after the 2nd excuse flied by.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
hunni he is soooo not worth it i have thought i was inlove before so put up with bull shit for too many years then found someone who made me feel like i had clouds inside my body and wished i had been stronger and not put up with so much shit.. dont do what i did trust me he is not worth it.. and people never change
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
Karmas A Bitch He Will Get His Just Deserts Sooner Or Later And Butane Gas Does Long Term Damage! You Don't Need Someone As Low As That Too Bring You Down It's Hard I Know From Past Experience.. Just Be Strong And Hang In There Because There's Plenty More Fish In The Sea =)
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
He's a loser! drugs are not the right choice. and i really don't think date rape drugs work on guys. you made the right choice, don't go back to the guy!
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
I don't think the date rape drugs works too well on guys... Sounds like a liar and a loser.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
Good for you! It's time to find another guy. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
Dump and run. The guy is a loser and so are you if you have even a shred of regret for breaking it off. You're on the right track. Keep going and find someone who can stay sober, straight and keep his hands off other women. VOE
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

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