love confusion

My boyfriend fell in love with me, but idk if I love him as much as he loves me. The worst part is he doesn't live in the same state as me anymore, so I only get to see him over summer. Plus, he doesn't talk to me everyday. But, I hate hurting him, because he's so sweet. What should I do..?

Final Results

1st.
Talk about it with him.
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52%
2nd.
Break up and move on.
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48%
3rd.
Stay with him.
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0%

Comments:

You can't delude him if you think you're not into him. You have to be true, not just with him but with you to. If you tell it him, you may hurt him, but if you "betray" him, if will hurt even more.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
If you are not 100% into him, then let him go. He will only grow more attached as times marches on, so it is best to let him go now. Lynda
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
It sure sounds like you are ready to move on and that your heart is no longer in this relationship. This is not fair to the guy, who deserves a girl who is in it with him 100%. Break up and let him live his life. Matty
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
It just sounds like it is over, since your heart is no longer into all of this. Let him go and allow him to find a new girl where he lives.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
It sounds like you are ready to break up with this guy and I don't think you should drag it out any further. Let him down easy and move on with your life. Brandon
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
You should talk with him about how you are feeling and see what he has to say. Long distance relationships are really hard, but they do occasionally work. PRD
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
You don't need to be in love with him. If you no longer have feelings then brake up. But dont pressure yourself to be in love as its normal to feel like that.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago

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