Looking back on love

I am a guy in my early 30s and pretty happily married. We also have one young daughter. I ran across my ex on Facebook recently and I just cant stop thinking about her. Not really in a romantic way but in like a curiousity way. We were madly in love 13 years ago & dated for almost 3 years. Now....

Final Results

1st.
Should I leave well enough alone?
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59%
2nd.
Should I friend her with my wifes approval?
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31%
3rd.
Should I send her a friend request?
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9%

Comments:

What do you expect to gain out of friending her on facebook? I think if you did that its only going to make the situation worse and you'll be thinking about her more. You're married and pretty happy so I think just leave the ex in the past
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
dont play with fire!!!! you have to respect your wife. Would you like her to disrespect you? because if you start a relationship with her (eventhought just friendship), it will not be fair to her!
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You are heading for trouble one small step at a time. First it's to friend her, then messaging, then meeting, then ??? But you already know this. Not a good idea. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You should leave it as a nice memory from the past. You don't want to ruin something beautiful that you have with your wife now. Curiousity can ruin your life.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You should do nothing without the approval of your wife. In fact do not do anything behind her back that you would not do in front of her. Scotty
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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