Long distance 'relationship' ?!

I met this guy at the beginning of the year, and I we've met up like 4 times now. We talk every day and I really really like him. He's told me he loves me, and we get along brilliantly but he lives 4 hours away which sucks. I've told him I want to be with him, but he disagrees cause of the distance?

Final Results

1st.
If you really love him, stick with it and see where it goes
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50%
2nd.
Walk away
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50%

Comments:

I dated a guy who lived that far away.. It can work if you like each other enough to try.. Plus there are great bonuses like living together for the weekends when you visit! Or meet each other half way for romantic weekend rendezvous :)
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
Sounds like he likes it just like it is. I'm guessing you are probably not his 'one and only'. If that's the case,he feels safe because you're not local and cannot do psycho chic detective work and catch him. Enjoy it the way it is, if you can. If you can't, then move on.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
It sounds like he isn't as into you as you are into him. My instincts tell me that he has someone at his end of the 4 hour trip. It's possible that he's playing you. Proceed cautiously or give it up altogether. I hope I'm wrong but you need to slow down, open your eyes, and do some thinking. VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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