Liking someone who likes someone else

This guy and I have sex often and I sleep over and he cuddles me to sleep without making a move and we act all cute and he says I'm amazing, but he still really likes his ex and is asking her back out in a few days. I want him to like me. What do I do? He says if she didn't exist, he'd fall for me

Final Results

1st.
If she says yes, stop talking to him all together
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52%
2nd.
If she says yes, try remain friends
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28%
3rd.
If his ex says no, try take it further
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17%
4th.
If she says no, continue doing what I'm doing
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3%

Comments:

sorry if i sound harsh but he is clearly only using you for sex...get out of that situation now before you get more hurt
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You are just his booty call!! Dump him NOW!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Your clearly not his first priority. And you are his side line chick. Dump him!!!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Really and truly, I would stop involving myself with this guy regardless of what his ex says. You shouldn't let him have this kind of control over you, especially if you are giving him so much attention and opening yourself up to obvious hurt. I do not think that he is being fair or considerate of your feelings at all. You should not hang around despite what his ex says because if she says no and he comes running back to you, you will be second best. Never let a guy put you second. -Dr. Dcyder
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You are definitely being used ! Your giivin him what his ex aint and since she aint there he is using you . You shouldn't talk to him whether she says no or yes . If your having sex with someone they should mean something to you and not be telling you about his ex that he wants back ! Wtf !
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You should not be involved with some guy that likes someone else. Want that kind of drama in your life?? i didn't think so. Move on and good luck to you! SamCole
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
I'm in this sammeeee position!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
If he is interested in someone else you should back away a bit until he has figured out his feelings completely. Give it some time && maybe he will come around. Kat
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Clearly he likes what you are dishing out more than he likes - well - YOU. You are "something to tie him over" until he can win back his ex. You are being used. Oh, I'm sure he likes you and all, but not in a really special way. Better re-define your relationship with him to, say, just friends (without benefits). VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
you will always be second best to this girl, if i were you even if shes says no to him i would stop talking to him anyway xx
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
he clearly still has feelings for his ex and she must have a huge hold on him. its wrong that he is using you for sex and as a re-bound to his previous relationship. im sure he has some feelings for you but they definately are'nt as big as yours. what he is doing to you is wrong and im afraid if he going to ask her out again you were just convinient to fill his desires at the time.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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