Liking a boy

So I like a boy in my church and he is really cool to me at church and we are chill together at church group but then we get to school and he just bout ignores me. Why?? Does he think I am too young for him since he is 16 and I am 14?

Final Results

1st.
He is just being nice cos it is church
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50%
2nd.
He does not like you
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50%
3rd.
He is shy?!?!
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0%

Comments:

Heck of a job there, it abosleutly helps me out.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
You are right he is prolly just being nice 2 you becuz u r in church && that is the night thing to do -- no biggie, get a new guy!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
He thinks you are too young! And maybe you are! Have fun at church but lay off the love part of your feelings!
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
He probably thinks that you are too young for him >>> and maybe you are. Enjoy the church friendship and stop stressing over something more! Jess
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
It is entirely possible that he only likes you or is friendly to you in church because that is the right thing to do, then at school he may feel that you are too young for him -- that is probably what is happening in this case. Mimi
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
He is a older so, he doesnt want to be mean but he doesnt like you he only wants to be kind with you so dont feel bad he is only a guy of a TEN MILLIONS GUYS IN THE WORLD im from colombia and i have 17 but guys of my age prefers 14girls cause they are deseperate to experiment with older guys. dont be desesperate find a cute 14 BOY
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
At church group, there is a small number of girls and a guy will flirt with whomever is available, it's the nature of guys. At school, the number of girls is much greater and his interests are directed elsewhere. Flirting with you at church group doesn't mean that he's in love with you and ignoring you at school doesn't mean that he doesn't like you. Yes, I think the age difference has something to do with it, too. It's not cool for a 16 year old to hang with a 14 year old. But at church group, you are what is available. I guess all of this sounds mean and I don't intend for it to but this is the behavior of teenage guys. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago

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