labels?!

is it possible to "be with someone" and not be labled boyfriend or girlfriend? im seeing someone right now, we mutually decided to just keep things as they are and "see what happens" why do we have to say we're "together" i like how we are right now neither of us are seeing any1 else is ths healthy?

Final Results

1st.
it could turn out to be something good, being taken so slow
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75%
2nd.
not normal
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25%

Comments:

I like labels even though noone else does. it explains to the world what is going on. without the lable BOYFRIEND then he might be freee to cheet!
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
NOrmal. No stressing. Be what you wanna be. describbe it howyou wanna describe it. it is just between the 2 of u!!
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
I love that everyone is saying essentially the same this...this is perfectly normal and they is nothing weird about it at all. The world does not define you guys..you two do! Olivia
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Do whatever you want, with whatever label you want, or with no label at all --- it is all perfectly normal and you should not stress about such things!
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
thank you two very much! that was super helpful, we both want to be together but the timing right now isnt the greatest, we arent ready to be in a relationship, but we love eachother, i talked to him about this and he said the same thing you guys did!
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Labels are overrated and you should just do what seems natural for you. People are so quick to define what is going on or focus on what other people think or worry about what Facebook status to use....think about yourself and what you want. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Who is making you label your relationship? You get to define it however the two of you want. If others what to say you're together, let them. They will anyway so there is no point in fighting them, just don't feel like you have to change your relationship for them. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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