Kinky sex......I think???

I am happily married to a nice guy and we have one daughter that is now 7 years old. I keep thinking about my hubby having sex w/ someone else but not in a bad way. Like I want to watch. I want to tell hubby about it but dont want him to think I am a frea

Final Results

1st.
Back off, this is toooo freaky
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50%
2nd.
Come right out and ask him to do it
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33%
3rd.
Beat around the bush and drop hints for him to do it
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17%

Comments:

Ask him to do it - the worst he will do is say no - tell him what all of the rules would be upfront and ENJOY!!!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
I think that this is a mistake! Even if you think this is what you want, what if those visuals are in your mind forever?! Treat this like a fantasy that will never really come true. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
In the heat of the moment, ask him if he has any secret sexual fantasies. Once the conversation gets going on fantasies, gradually move toward yours. Try to ease into it. If you just drop it on him suddenly, he may be too shocked to respond. If and when h
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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