Just The Bank

My friends constantly use me for my money. If they drive me around they insist I pay for everything to pay them back for the gas. They don't even pay for their own gas-their parents do. If I tell them I'm not paying for them they threaten to just leave me and not drive me home from where we are.

Final Results

1st.
Drop them as friends
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67%
2nd.
Talk to them even though they are self-centered and vain
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33%

Comments:

I am not convinced that these are actually friends. Would you do this to someone that you consider a friend? You need to stop being the bank and talk to them about their bad behavior.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
drop them as friends. in fact they are not even really friends since friends would never do that. find some real friends real fast!!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
These girls do not sound like they have your best interest in mind. You don't need to surround yourself with such selfish people. -Dr. Dcyder
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Did you really call them friends? I don't think so. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
just drop them girl! you don't deserve be treating like you're a pain in the ass for this people and have to pay for the gas because they simply don't want transport you as friends probably because they don't even see you as one of their friends! so if you bothers them that much, you should move on and make new friends! friends are everywhere you don't have to stick around this stupid people!!! Friends are for with you no matter what! they proved you they aren't real friend for you!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
they are not real friends they only after your money
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You should wait till they drive u home one day, be like "i left the money in my house when u drive me there i'll get it for u" and then when ur at ur house be like we seriously need to talk ...and tell them whats bothering you becuase if u don't thats not a true friendship and it sucks but if u drop them as friends u can be missing out on a lot due to losing rides, and more important their frienship
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Thats not cool, at the end of the day either you're going to accept their behavior or your not. If you're not, then you need to speak to them and see if they change and if they don't change then its time to move on from them
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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