jealousy..HELP!

one of my best friends has so many hot nice guys that talk to her, but she also has a boyfriend, and still all the guys want her. i don't get it, she's gorgeous but taken...i'm single and just as pretty what is it? why aren't any of those guys attracted to me? :( it's really unfair HEEELLLP!

Final Results

1st.
they like you as a cute friend, thats all.
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70%
2nd.
you're not as hot/pretty as your friend
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30%

Comments:

she might be easier than you even though she has a bf
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
maybe you come off as a prude.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
does your personality suck?
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Focus on just yourself and not anyone else -- you should not be comparing yourself to anyone else -- you have strengths, so find them and use them. DeeDee
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Jealousy is an ugly look. Maybe guys can sense your jealousy towards your friend and thats why you think they take no notice to you.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
you never know that guys only find her "hot"
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Stop thinking about your friend so much and do your own thing. Plus jealousy is not a cool emotion, so let go of that. Just use what you have and get your own guyz. Jen
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
For one thing, jealousy isn't sexy. If you're feeling and looking like your jealous of her, then you are an automatic turn-off, no matter how otherwise attractive you are. It's time to stop comparing yourself to her and to be your own person. Make this a personal project to learn how to get and keep a guy's attention. If you're shy, get over it. Shyness isn't as cute as you think. Talk to a lot of guys. Always be happy when you are around them, there is less drama in happiness than in misery. Guys hate drama queens. Smile, be clean, smell nice, call them by name, don't limit your conversations to texting. Talk face to face. You'll get there. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
You need to just work with what you have and not give any consideration to your friend and what is going on in her personal life. PRD
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
This will be all about attitude and not so much about looks. Be nice to guys - be friendly - smile - no drama - laugh - make eye contact. You'll get there!! David
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago

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