Is My Boyfriend Losing Interest in Me

My bf goes out partying without me a lot more with his new college friends. He is popular with girls and likes to flirt when he's been drinking. He told me he could've hooked up with a girl in his class at a party but didn't. She knows he has a gf. He knows he flirts but says he loves me. Cheating?

Final Results

1st.
Should I trust that he only flirts and nohting more?
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50%
2nd.
Should I ask him to try and take me with him more?
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33%
3rd.
Is he interested or cheating with this one girl?
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17%

Comments:

I don't think he's necessarily losing interest in you or cheating on you, he's out there having fun with new experiences. If I was you I'd start getting out and having my own fun and new experiences.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
He's a college guy who enjoys partying and flirting. He enjoys the attention that he gets from the other girls. IT's going to happen. Just a matter of time. If he truly loves you, he would either include you or avoid the temptation altogether. He isn't going to do either because he's having too much fun. He isn't mature enough for a monogomous relationship, yet. He would rather have fun while he can. He will grow up someday and probably be a great mate, but for now, don't get too serious with him. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
hmmm difficult situation, I guess it comes down to whether you really trust him or not. I suspect he isn't cheating on you, if he was I wouldn't have thought he'd tell you about that girl he could've hooked up with, he would have just kept that secret
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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