is it over?

my bf&i went out for 2 months&then we broke up&now were back together. i talked to him everyday for a week&he hasnt talked to me in 3 days. i see him in school but he won't talk to me&i try to talk to him. i miss how things used to be. ive tried talking to him about this, but he wont answer my txt

Final Results

1st.
yes it's over.
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36%
2nd.
ambush him in school & ask why
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29%
3rd.
no, he's just being a guy
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21%
4th.
just keep trying.
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14%

Comments:

it's been day 5 since he's talked to me. i saw him in the hallway yesterday & he smiled at me, but i still haven't talked to him.
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
Ambush is a BAD idea, so get that out of your mind right away. Ask him about what is going on in a really casual way. Leave the door open, let him talk all he wants and try to get his honest response. Kat
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
Did he start doing this things without a reason? Suddenly? It makes no sense! Try to understand why he's acting like this, try to figure out if something has been happening in his life or if you made something wrong you're not knowing. Just urge more if it worths. And if you were so special to each other, I think it does...
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
It sounds like it might be over but you really do need to just flat out ask him what is going on. You have a right to know the truth!
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
Do not ambush him -- this will not really accomplish anything, other than making him uncomfortable. Ask him for a few moments of his time to talk and then say that you just want clarification of the status of your relationship. No pressure, no crying, no desperation. JaneGrant
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
You liked the way it was before. He didn't. Now that you are back together, you want things to be like it used to be. He doesn't. Either you two find some middle ground with which you can both be happy, or you call it quits. It doesn't sound like you both have the same idea of a relationship in mind. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

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