Insecurities about my boyfriend....

Sometimes I get the feeling he prefers to be without me, or he has more fun without me. I get scared that he would leave me because he might prefer life without me. I could never live him and love him so much. I know he loves me, but he doesn't seem to care as much as I do. I worry and I'm scared.

Final Results

1st.
Try to talk to him, but he gets upset because he loves me.
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89%
2nd.
Appreciate what I have and just shut up.
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11%

Comments:

I suspect that you are very jealous and possesive. You resent that he can have fun without you, and that he likes to hang with others. You want him all to yourself. Keep that attitude and he will dump you like yesterdays' garbage. You say that you care about him and love him. If so, then you want for him to be happy and you don't want to be an obstacle to his happiness. Oh, and he should want the same for you. What you are lacking are mutual respect and trust. Lighten up. VOE
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
Men usually arnt very in tuned with their emotions or at least not as much as women. Simply sit him down and tell him you feel insecure but also dont make it seem like your insecurities are his fault.u have to sit down with him and have a heart to heart talk if you do want this relationship to work and make you both happy at the same time. calmly tell him what he does to make you feel insecure at times and let him know how to help u feel better because its hard to prove to someone that they have nothing to worry about if he dnt know how.Cut the boy some slack as well if he constantly tells you he loves u and that u have nthing to worry about then that should be enugh security for you but if its not then just tell him how he can help to make you feel more confident in your relationship
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
I know exactly what its like. My boyfriend hates talking about how he feels, and when i try to tell him how i feel he doesnt seem to care. My problem is i have alot of trust issues with him, and im not seeing this in your case. Having time to yourself is a good thing, it makes the relationship stronger and makes you miss the person. If your with them all the time then how can you miss him? Worry about now not the future, because eveything happes for a reason. If he loves you then yu have nothing to worry about. RMS
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
tell him how u feel but remember every1 enjoys their own space.. enjoy urs too
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

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