In Love with Friend?

We grew up together. Recently started talking alot more the past month. I'm beginning to have feelings for him. He flirts back. But he has a girlfriend of 1 year. What do I do!?

Final Results

1st.
Tell him how I feel?
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62%
2nd.
Wait it out until they break up then make a move?
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38%

Comments:

STOP he has a long term girlfriend and its obviously serious...dont get in the way of that just cos you think he's flirting with you.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
STOP FLIRTING WITH HIM! he's a player!!! you don't even realized he have a girlfriend of one year????????????!!! come on! obviously he still with her because he have feelings on her! so stay away from him, probably all that he wants is hookup with you, and then MOVE ON!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Umm.. if he's flirting with you.. AND he has a girlfriend.. that kinda shows that he isn't really faithful, doesn't it? If you two ever get together, he can flirt with other women.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
same position.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Leave it alone. If he wanted you, you would know by now. Don't do anything that would be interpreted as trying to break them up. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
If he feels the same, you wouldn't be here :^
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
i'm partially in the same situation; minus the fact i didnt grow up with him; he randomly asked me out! but i'd tell him, definately.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
samee im in that position
Added by Emmaallstar22Ai - 12 months ago

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