Im depressed cuz' he is?

My boyfriend tried to commit suicide, his best friend died a couple weeks ago, and I am stuck in the middle of this just getting stressed around him, I love him dearly, but is it worth trying to help him and me getting stressed over it, or not?

Final Results

1st.
Tell him how you feel even though it might hurt both of you
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71%
2nd.
Yes help him and eventually the problems will go away
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29%
3rd.
No Dump him, your just hurting yourself
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0%

Comments:

Here is your real question: "Is HE worth trying to help when it causes me stress?" And you say you love him? Really? The guy you love tries to commit suicide and you are considering bailing on him because it somehow is inconveniencing you. Think about that. For him - get him some professional help. A counselor, therapist, minister, social worker, but a professional. Go with him if necessary. For you - When this passes, let this guy go so that the both of you can move on to real loving relationships. He's not THE ONE. VOE
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

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