I seem to be invisible

You need to talk to her to figure out what is going on. Maybe it is something simple and can be easily fixed by the both of you. Tiffany

You need to talk to your mother about what is going on with her. Sometimes people act angry when they are really just sad or stressed. Try to get her to open up to you! Kat

You need to talk to her. Try to explain that you're confused why things are different now. Ask her if you did something wrong. If she cares about you, she will tell. Just try to stay calm and listen carefully to your mother. If your mother says things that you don't agree with, stay calm and do not get upset or else things can only get worse. Try to do whatever you can to make it better, but talking is the first step.

Talk to your mom and try and understand why she's been angry. Express your feelings and let her know the affect that its having on you and once she understands that wait and see if things start to change

I think your mom is really stressed about all of the problems with your family and, as is often the case, she is taking it out on her best friend which is you. She probably doesn't even realize it. I'm impressed that you value your relationship with your mother so much. A lot of daughters have a difficult time with their mothers. It's certainly worth your time and effort to talk to mom about her anger. Don't make accusations like "you're always mad at me", rather just tell her that you've noticed that she seems overly stressed lately and sometimes angry. Maintain a caring tone to your voice. Don't hit her with 20 questions but let her understand that you are concerned. VOE

maybe she's going thru metopause

You need to talk to her and really let her know how her behavior is making you feel. I am sure that she will listen to you and take your feelings into consideration. Steph