I'm not attractive at all...:(

hello guys, I'm sixteen and I got a problem : I'm not attractive at all, so boys don't even look or speak to me. I'm not ugly, not fat, I dont "suck". I'm sporty, intelligent but very very shy.. maybe that's the problem! any advices?

Final Results

1st.
do something (but what ??!)
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100%
2nd.
don't do anything
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0%

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If it was easy, it wouldn't be a problem. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
thanks guys. i'm going to try, but that's so hard :s
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Right on-this hleepd me sort things right out.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
I am 100% confident that you are so much more attractive then you give yourself credit for. Girls never see themselves the way the rest of the world sees them. Lighten up and work with what ya got!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Be friendly and nice, then people will flock to you. I know that this is very hard when you are shy, but you really need to put yourself out there. You can start with group settings and then move to more intimate settings from there. You shouls also ask your friends to set you up on a few dates as well. Teri
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
My advise stands. Talk to people, in this case, boys. Show some interest which means do more listening than talking but don't be entirely quiet. Develop self confidence by doing something and becoming competent at it. Here's the risk part. Try choir, theater, sports, or the speech team. You will be admired for just trying. By guys! Some will even want to talk to you. If you mess up, and you will, laugh it off. Make fun of yourself a little. Let others laugh at you, too. Don't take it seriously. You HAVE to break out of your safe little shell to overcome shyness but it's possible. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
ok, you must be right but.. IMO, i'm not shy with girls but with boys.. I just don't know what to do or how to do
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Let's see. Your not ugly, not fat, you don't "suck", and you're very very shy. I think you know that you're not unattractive but the shyness is your problem. Here's my advice. Take a risk. No, not heroin or bungee jumping, or sky diving. I mean talk to people. Show some interest. Develop some self confidence. Do something goofy and make fun of yourself a little. Shy people are usually afraid of what others think of them. BFD! A person with self confidence doesn't give a rat's pattootee what others think. And they're happy people because of it. Shyness will get you no where. Ever. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

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