I'm in love with my English teacher. :/

He always flirts with me but its not obvious & no one notices. Maybe I just think that because Im so infatuated. Its just like Aria&Ezra in Pretty Littlr Liars. Anyway he has a girlfriend & they've only been together for 4 months, but he can do so much better. He's 25 & I'm 17. What do I do?

Final Results

1st.
Leave him alone, he's too old
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39%
2nd.
Wait for him to approach me with a definite answer
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28%
3rd.
Just carry on the way that it is and forget about him
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25%
4th.
Ask him how he feels
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9%

Comments:

don't ask him how he feels! many young teachers flirt with older student. MINE DOES! but honestly i don't think anything serious will actually come of it, he's a teacher, your a pupil, there's an 8 year gap, he has a girlfriend... i think you might just get carried away!
Added by Anonymous - 2 months ago
Just flirt for the year. He'll probably be gone next year. Most teachers move around from school to school. Especially new ones. Like it when he's around, and smile or laugh when you remember him later in life.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Leave him alone. Forget any feelings. This is not right. This can be criminal for him.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
give him head and he may like you <3
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU! LEAVE HIM ALONE! THERE IS A REASON THAT NOONE ELSE NOTICES HIS FLIRTING - BECAUSE IT IS IN YOUR IMAGINATION!
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Whilst you're at school you can't do anything! So if you really like him you'll have to wait out school and then once you've finished and if things really are good for you guys then go for it
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Lol. I thought this could only happen when scripted. This is kind of cool. But don't be like airia
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
LEAVE THIS ALONE! There are so many things wrong with this situation. You are probably taking your teacher's attention the wrong way. Find someone your own age. Your teacher could lose his job if you think that there is something more here, which I can guarantee there isn't. This is not to insult you. This is just a reality check because this is a situation that could get VERYVERYVERY ugly if you take what he is saying/doing out of context. If you care about your teacher like you say, just do your homework and leave it at that. -Dr. Dcyder
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You cant do anything until you leave the school as it is illegal and he could be fired or be put in prison. A girl did this at my school with a married teacher and the whole thing ended horribly. Dont fantasize about Aria and Ezra as its just a tv show.Not reality.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
wait til you graduate and see whats happens, and this VOE chick is annoying, just saying...
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
He could get fired and go to jail.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
haha reading the title just made me think of azra and aria. that relationship would be rlly fun. i say hav fun w/ you grown teacher. haha. who knows this mite be one of the most fun relationships you can have.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
He's 25 with a girlfriend. You are 17 and have fantacized the two of you into a movie. He's your teacher. You've concluded that he can do better than his current girlfriend, namely YOU. You've determined that you need 290 days for Dcyder to figure this out for you. Are you sure your 17? Really, this has all of the signs of a desperate 13 year old who has no grasp of reality. Do this guy a favor. Finish his class and get away from him. Don't look back. VOE.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
dont do anything. You can get him in trouble.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Leave him alone-he could loose his job. Wait till you graduate.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Um...kinda huge maturity and age difference! Its just a crush...
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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