I love my boyfriend but not sure if i should stay with him

I love my boyfriend. We want to get married as soon as I get out of college but I want to wait and have sex after we are maried and he wants it now. And everytime we get in a fight he wants to break up and then threatens to commit suicide because "I dont care". And he blames me for all his problems.

Final Results

1st.
Leave him he isnt the right guy
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81%
2nd.
Stay with him
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19%

Comments:

Thretens to kill himself? Loser. Idiot. Moran. Totally not the right guy for you. Find some guy that does not screw with your head like this and some guy that will respect you.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Yep, sounds like a loser. Want that for the rest of your life? Hell no.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Leave this loser. It sounds like he is playing emotional games with you, does not respect you and it is only going to get much harder from here. CV
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
His threats to break up and threats of suicide are his attempts to control you. If he is doing this now, just wait until you are married. Breaking up now is easier than divorce later.VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If he blames you for all his problems and always wants to break up with you why are you guys together?? And if he is truly thinkig about committing suicide then he needs to get help. Either way I think you should go and find the right guy cause this one doesn't sound like he is.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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