I love him and want to stay with him but i want other guys.

I love my boyfriend soo soo much, we've been together for a year and I don't want to be with anyone but him but, i want other guys too. Like fool around or whatever. I have to idea what to do. Help?

Final Results

1st.
Break up with him and go for the single fun life.
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69%
2nd.
Stay with him and forget all other guys.
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31%

Comments:

You need to come clean and be honest to him, he deserves it! Whatever happens, happens!
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You need to ask yourself what is more important, your boyfriend or other men, you need to look at the big picture. Would you be happier single and being able to do what you want? Or with him?
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
I've been in the same boat. Its hard but breaking up is probably the right thing to do. After all is done and you've had some fun, you may come back to the thoughts of your boyfriend.. all those things that 'flings' dont offer. Could you find those things later? Or is he really special?
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
ask your self what is more important.... other guys or your Bf.. yall have been together for a long time he deserves to know the truth... id say stay with him!!! -mkm
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If you didn't want to be with anyone else but him, then why would you want any other guys? Obviously you have some inner turmoil going on, and you need to be fair with your boyfriend. If he is doing nothing wrong he doesn't deserve to have his girlfriend constantly thinking of other men. You either need to get over this, or break up with him and explain why.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Clearly you have answered your own question... when a girl is nagging at a guy to date or to become exclusive she usually says " you should only want to be with me, not hang out with other girls etc etc" same goes for you regardless of how long you have been with the person.. i have been in relationships where i dated them for years and didnt want to do anything with anyone else.. Ya its healthy to think people are attractive but thats it... or ive been in relationships and felt the same way you have and ended it and have as result been sooo happy.. end it and go tap some ass
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If you want to be single and want other guys, then break up with him. You'll just be miserable if you keep up with this relationship and it's not fair to your boyfriend/whatever he may be.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If you want to be with other guys, then you should be with other guys. But you can't be with him as well, since it is not fair to him. SA
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
So which is it? You say that you "don't want to be with anyone but him", then you say that you "want other guys too". One of those statements is a lie. If a guy did this to you, you would be mad as hell and really hurt. Break up with your boyfriend. He deserves better. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
nice
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If you're wanting to be with other guys I don't think you're being fair to your current bf n think you should let him go to find someone that will only be focused on him
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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