I like this guy but I suck at flirting

So I've been into this guy for awhile. I dont really know how to flirt with him and I want his number but I don't know how to get it. I don't want to sound desperate or anything.

Final Results

1st.
Flirt more and ask later
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75%
2nd.
Go head and ask for his number
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25%

Comments:

1) Compliment him (guys love that) 2)Playful banter (not aggressive) 3) Find common interests 4) Give him your number, take the initiative! Then he could make the first move by texting you! Hope this helps!
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Flirting is just talking -- I know that sounds overly simple but that is all that it is -- be intersted in this guy -- smile -- touch his arm -- be a good friend.
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Talk to this guy and get the firndship thing going and then before you know it the flirting part will come on its own.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You need to focus less on getting his number and more about just establishing some sort of friendship. Once you do, the rest of it will just flow. Patti
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Flirting is really no big deal. It is just talking to someone you like, really listening to them, being interested in what they are saying and giving them the impression that you have a romantic interest in them. But it starts with just chatting! Jess
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Flirting is nothing more than showing an interest in someone. You don't have to do the hair twirling or eye batting, just be a good listener, keep smiling, and laugh when something funny is said or done. It's no more difficult than that. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You need to start with just getting the conversation going. Talk about mutual friends or school or sports or vacations. It is always better to allow things to start unfolding naturally. Lorena
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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