i had sex with my best friends ex boyfriend

sophie split up with aaron about a year ago and havent spoke since Recently aaron contacted me on facebook and asked me out for lunch i didnt think anything of it becos when they were going out me and aaron were close(as friends) i went to lunch and one thing led to another that night and we had sex

Final Results

1st.
tell my friend before she find out of off someone else?
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79%
2nd.
go on as nothing has happened and hope she wont find out?
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21%

Comments:

You might as well be upfront cause it will come out one way or another, its better that she hears it from you
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
You should have never done this and now that it has happened you need to pretend that it never did. Maybe she will never find out about this awful event.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You should just tell her , she probably will be be upset buh everybody makes mistakes . If she is your true best friend she will forgive only if you really are sorry . Even tho you shoulda stopped yourself .
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
This never happened. Got it....never happened? You did what?? Nope, can't hear you. Keep it silent FOR EVER.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Either way, the result will probably be the same, your friend will likely be upset with you. However, you have two options: 1-don't tell her and risk the chance of her finding out and being upset, or 2-tell her, be honest, and still risk the chance of her being upset. At the end of the day, your friend will respect you a lot more for being honest. Just put yourself in her shoes. -Dr. Dcyder
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You need to just pretend like this never ever happened and hope to the heavens that she never ever finds out. If she does, prepare to apologize like crazy!! PRD
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
In my opinion, if they broke up, then he is fair game. I realize that girls don't see things this way, so I suppose it is best if you tell your friend and suffer the consequences. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
i think that comment is a bit harsh! yous were drunk ryt? we all do stuff we regret, trust me ive had a few lol, i think you should tell her, explain to her what happened and just hope for the best, good luck x
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
SLUT! YOU SHOULD HAVE STOPPED IT!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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