I found pictures of my boyfriend's ex on his phone.

I was looking for photos of me and my boyfriend on his phone with his permission when I came across a photo album with only 2 photos: both of him and his ex; clearly not taken by his phone camera but uploaded from facebook. I was heartbroken but claimed nothing was wrong. I can't get it off my mind.

Final Results

1st.
Confront him and receive the expected pleading apology.
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62%
2nd.
Try to ignore it and suck it up.
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22%
3rd.
Distance myself gradually to become stronger.
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12%
4th.
Just fake a smile for the sake of everyone.
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4%
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that happened to me a few weeks ago i was looking in my boyfriends wallet to put our kids pics in and i found a pic of his ex i asked him about it and he said he didnt know it was there the next day i look in it again and i find a pic of me there i was glad he put my pic in there
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
its his ex, get over it
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
that could mean nothing to your boyfriend. boys are dumb but seriously ask him about it dont be sh y because if u hide it noting will get solved
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Two pictures of him and his ex? My god, dump him! He is obviously not your idea of perfect and you must have a perfect man. I'm sure you've never done anything to hurt his feelings. Dump him, I say, Dump Him!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
confront him and see what he has to say. if your not gonna be happy with him then move on. there is no point bein in a relationship where everyone ends up hurt. if he already had thm on there before you were together thn its not too much to be worried about. if he out them on there during your relationship then he isn't worth the heartbreak. ask him for the honest truth. and just hope you get it
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Stay with him and enjoy the knowledge that you are nothing but a worthless, rebound, and would never level up to what he had
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I would let him know it bothers you in a rational way. The relationship that is current is more important than the one that no longer exists. Photos that are in a shoebox in a closet are one thing, but one that has been uploaded on a cell phone is clearly another. Any activity that causes another discomfort should be communicated even if it may sound frivolous..its about YOUR feelings and him changing a patten of behavior that may seem like nothing to him..but may fester and create unnecessasy anxiety for you and your relationship. Communication is the key.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
depends on when the photo was taken ..if it was when they were together well its just a happy memory ..if it was recent thats another story
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
He's a guy. They do that. Maybe she was special to him? Stuff like that is hard to throw away. You need to except that they had something special. You are obviously special to him as well, but this isn't a just a picture to him.
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
you should confront him about it ... let him know. If he tries to argue his way out be prepared with a pic of you and your ex on your phone and show it to him.. then ask him how he feels about it..
Added by mrs_trinh - 6 months ago
AS a bloke, I'd say the previous comment is about right. We guys can actually mix loyalty and still hold good thoughts about ex's. However, sounds like a great excuse for him to take for a good night out. Make him suffer.... but not too much... and with a
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Have you been through his photos b4, were they recent additions or maybe uploaded by his ex when they were 2gether? Girls & boys think differently, you and I would get rid of almost everthing that reminds us of our ex! Boys just forget that it is ther
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
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