i cant get over my ex

So if he has been hooking up with you on the side for 4 months saying he'd take you back and never did, what do you think is going to change? Do you really want to be with a guy who's clearly just going to cheat again. You deserve better!

I doubt that he found a new girlfriend on the same day that he broke up with you. More likely he was already seeing her while dating you. He's a player, plain and simple. He played you and he played her. No more crying over him unless you like being used like a piece of Charmin. Going back to him is just foolish. Don't be. VOE

The best thing is to do is to take some off time to yourself. I'm not going to lie to you and tell you that it's going to be easy to forget him. You already know that for yourself. It's going to take years, and maybe even never. But if he broke up with you and then found a girl on the same day, that's something to worry about. And if he cheated on her, even if it's with you, that's a big red light. Doesn't that make you think what he did during your relationship? What he's going to do if you guys ever got back together? cheating is cheating, no matter who the person is. To me, that's a sign that you should move on. Hope it really works out for you. forever yours: Mili