I can't decide whether i trust him or not...

i love my boyfriend and there is no doubt about that... although all my previous boyfriends had always cheated on me.. this makes me insecure, he is an amazing guy he really is, and i want to trust him... but i dont know how... and everytime i bring up my insecurity i feel like he's breaking..

Final Results

1st.

Try talking about it again...

54%

2nd.

Leave it and hope to eventually get over it

46%

Comments:

Hey, you just have to give some time to see how he really is! Don't give up hope in him or yourself! Just just have to learn how to trust over time; I know this for a fact. Though, you have to trust yourself before you trust anyone else. I still can't do that, and I understand your position here. My ex got a girl pregnant and didn't tell me! All he was after was sex... But I have a good guy now, and I love him to death. We dated before, but my friend was trying to take him away from me, so she lied about him. Just don't let your past get in the way of your future! Hope this helps, nyan! -Kassidy Payne

Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

I don't know if I should trust my bf because he only seen me 2 times and now I can't see him for 2 weeks because he is out of Edmonton so i don't know what to do

Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

Well.. My boy friend Planned on cheating on me.. Me and him have been together for a little over 2 years. Only 2 weeks after our baby was born i found a number.. i called it and found out everything!! he was going to go to her house after work and what not.. He says he never cheated once and he wasnt going to go. He said that we wouldnt never do anything to hurt me again ect. Well i didnt break up with him cause i love him to death But... 3 months later, i still cant get over what he did.. and and get sick to my stomach everytime knowing what he was going to do.. im my mind (if you love someone you would never do something like that)I will never love him the way i did b4.

Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

<-continued- I still don't trust my boyfriend and it's been 4 months. I still think about it. I forgave him for trying to make it up to me and deleting her perminatly from his life, He will never see her again. But I still think about it and I wont forget it. Talk to him about it whenever you are feeling down about it. Sometimes we just need a reminder that they actually were sorry about it and to know that we are their only one and not some other girl.

Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

I can totally relate to you. My boyfriend cheated on me with his best friend who was a girl. he assured me so many times that she was only a friend and I believed him. them one day after our 9 months he cheated. It wasn't like he meant to hurt me and it took me a long time to figure things out. I broke up with him at first but my dad gave me some advice. Ask your self : Do I really want to erase this guy from my life and everything we ever were? I can guarantee theres going to be days where you can't stand to even look at him cause you can't believe it actually happened. It's not something you would ever think a boy could do to you, but be strong and if he promises to commit to you fully, you gotta try and believe him. -continued->

Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

my boyfriend currently is living an hour from me, i dont get to see him all the time, and before we started dating he was talking to another girl and i tweaked on him, which brought us to being together. Now he is talking to her again, and hes telling me he only wants me, and blah blah blah, i dont know what to do.