I am jealous

I have been with my boyfriend for two months. He's great, but he's best friends with his ex. I trust him; I don't feel like he'd cheat on me. But I dislike hearing about her, him getting texts from her several times a day, him helping her out, him complaining that she's using him, etc.

Final Results

1st.

Keep talking to him about it, letting him know how I feel.

42%

2nd.

End it and next time find a guy with no ex in the picture.

38%

3rd.

Stop bringing it up, and work on not feeling jealous.

17%

4th.

Stop bringing it up so I won't look insecure.

Comments:

Im sorry to say that maybe he cares more about her feelings than yours ..if he respected your new relationship he would shut up ..either that or hes showing off !!

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

Option 1: Keep talking to him about it. Translation Nag him. Option 2: Stop bringing it up so I won't look insecure. This won't stop the insecurity. Option 3: End it and next tiem find a guy with no ex in the picture. I'm sure there are lots of guys with no former girlfriends. Of course, most of them are gay. Option 4: Stop bringing it up and work on not feeling jealous. How ya gonna do that? Here's an option. He's your boyfriend, not hers. You won. Game over. Grow up.

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

i'd talk to him...it seems she still wants to be w/ him w/ all the texts, etc...but at the same time, if he can't say 'no' to her (he can only be used w/ his own permission), then he still has feelings for her, and if that's the case, you gotta end it now, sooner rather than later, when more of your feelings would be invested.

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

if he wants u he has to learn to respect you and how u feel comfortable!! sure he can still be friends wit her but he sounds like he misses the relationship wit her i would tell him to get tha fk ova her or bitch about his probs 2 sum1 else cos u wont be there 2 hear it!!!

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago