How Should I Feel.

Im Overweight. But EVERY Guy I Have Ever Dated Has Been REALLY Skinny,Now Ive Met A Guy Whos Really Nice And Treats Me Great,But I Feel Im Being Shallow Cause He Is "fat" Im Not Sure What Do Or How I Can Get Over My Shallowness.

Final Results

1st.
Stick With Him And Hope My Views Change.
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63%
2nd.
Leave Him And Find Someone Else.
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38%

Comments:

I'm out of league here. Too much brain power on dilspay!
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
He doesnt deserve to have you pretend to be attracted to him, when you just think he's fat. Thats fricking rude.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
you're views are going to just change by themselves you're going to need to work at it. Catch yourself when your being shallow and work out how you should really be handling the situation. Your first step in this is working out whether you should really be with this guy
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
I think you need to learn to look beyond the weight, you said this guy treats you great and is really nice that should be the most important thing. Don't ruin a good thing here
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
You have double standards. One set for you and one for whomever you're dating. It's a good thing those skinny guys didn't have their own double standards. You're right, you are shallow which is a sign of immaturity. Do this guy a favor and cut him loose so that he doesn't have to try to live up to your impossible and unreasonable standards. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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