How do I break up with my boyfriend? HELP?!

I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months now but our relationship just isn't working.He has changed so much and I can tell he lies to me a lot.I don't want to hurt him when I tell him.I told him I love him before and he told me he loves me.I don't feel the same any more.

Final Results

1st.
Tell him I don't love him even if he is devastated.
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70%
2nd.
Pretend I'm gay to save his feelings
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20%
3rd.
any other suggestions?
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10%

Comments:

It is hard to break up when you aren't mad or otherwise don't have some good reason. It's important to let the other person know that they haven't done or said anything wrong, it's just that you aren't feeling the connection any more and it would be wrong and deceitful to keep going. Let him know that you aren't ditching him for another guy. That he is a great guy, good looking, pleasant personality and is the perfect guy for some girl but it's just not you. There is no perfect painless way to break up but by being nice and paying him compliments, it helps. Good luck. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
tell him how you really feel. not that you dont love him, cause you might but that you dont feel the same anymore you think he has changed and that famous line of "i just want to be friends"
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
start to act "off" with him and hand more around you (girl) friends you might just drift away from him and say that its just not working or you could just tell him the truth that his not the same anymore
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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