Hopelessly shy with guys - how will i ever get a date?

I am reasonably attractive (i've been told), have a good figure and like to have fun but i'm so shy with guys they never notice me. I feel like my friends are more confident and prettier than me and find it hard to get guys attention, let alone get a date. I dont want to be alone for ever!

Final Results

1st.
just be myself and wait for the right guy to come along
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49%
2nd.
try being more flirtatious and compete with my friends
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31%
3rd.
try online dating
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21%
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Try online daiing, but be yourself, if you dont want to, just be yourself, theres no point in it miss sunshine
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
i wont argue with any of the options but i think you should just be yourself. dont pretend to be something you're not... because if you do... you'll never find anyone that likes you for who you are!
Added by mrs_trinh - 6 months ago
I met my hubby through online dating, a friend also met hers through online dating, and another friend met her boyfriend of 2 years through online dating. Really just give it a try. Stick to the free sites though. No reason you should pay for it. OKCupid
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
my sister met her guy through online dating and they're really happy so why not.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
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