hooking up!?

my really hot friend want's to hook up, he graduated this year, & I probs wont be seeing him for awhile, we're good friends like brother/sister. But I've never hooked up before, would it ruin things for me!?would people judge me for it? would it ruin my rep?help! PLEASE COMMENT!

Final Results

1st.
Don't hook up
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46%
2nd.
do it why not have fun espically is he's a hottie
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44%
3rd.
people will judge you for it, it will ruin your rep
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7%
4th.
COMMENT.
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2%

Comments:

mmmm.. hook up doesn't mean you'll have sex! for some guys is just a kissing and touching "thing"! if you really like this guy, then go for it! but don't have sex because he probably isn't into you, and just wants fun before college ;)
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
keep your friendship and dont hook up unless its after a long term relationship with each other otherwise you'll both just end up hurt -KAT
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Sex will change your relationship. Maybe for the better, maybe not. If you like it the way it is, you might not want to do this. Will people judge you? Yes, if they find out and it seems that people's lives are so public anymore that it is likely to get out. Will it ruin your rep? Well, can't say for sure but it is more likely to damage your reputation than it is to improve it. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
i say just hook up, it could lead somewhere and also its not going to damage your friendship, boys like sex and giving it to him will not make him like you any less, in fact he may like you more afterwards...its not as if its going to be awkward after if you dont see each other every day...
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Yeahh, dont hook up. It is not worth it, specially if you have no feelings for the person. You can make out with him or whatever, but dont go to far. You will regret it!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Dont hook up! Its never a good idea. Sex is meant to be with someone you love hence why it is called making love. Don't waste it on someone you dont love. Wait for that special someone or you can ruin your rep and be know as the slut who will hook up with anyone. It doesnt matter how hot or cloes you are. Each time you have sex chemicals are released into your body. This chemical, weather you realize it or not, is making a bond with the partener. The more you do it with other people the more you become immune to it and dont feel it. And in a way you are giving a piece of you away each time. ~ Laila ~
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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