His "friend" of 10 years helped him through his di

My live in boyfriend has a female friend that, in his words helps him stay centered. From the little he has told me he used her as a crutch through the tough times with his ex-wife. They have formed a very close bond. The problem is that he is still using

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1st.
Say see ya and move on. He obviously has unfulfilled feelings for her.
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63%
2nd.
Wait it out and give him time to realize that he doesn't need her help now.
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37%

Comments:

its not like you can ask him ever to see her again from what i read there close friends but you should let him know that your upset about the amount of time he spends with her
Added by Anonymous - over 2 years ago
you should check your work before you post it :)
Added by Anonymous - over 2 years ago
If it makes you really uncomfortable ask him to stop seeing her, if he really loves you and wants to be with you he'll stop seeing her
Added by Anonymous - over 2 years ago
Have you confronted him on the unfulfilled feelings? How do you know he has those kind of feelings towards her? I think you need to speak to him about that and if he does then it maybe time to move on cause if they have such a close bond it will be diffic
Added by Anonymous - over 2 years ago
if you really like him you will find a way to get around it
Added by Anonymous - over 2 years ago

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