Help!! Please!!

My fiance and I are so in love.Im 19 &a virgin hes 21 &a virgin &he really wants to have sex now we got close but didnt actually do it.I want to have sex too but im scared cuz hes pretty big down there &Im afraid it will be super painful.He said he would be gentle &go slow but Im afraid it will hurt

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Im not pressured to have sex i want to but just afraid. help
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2nd.
Please help! i need advice
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you totaly do not sound like u r ready and becuz of that you should wait. you will feel better the more comited you are!
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
U shud never ever be afraid 2 have sex and if u r afraid then something is not right n if something is not right u need 2 wait.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
If you are in love, respect each other, care about each other and go slow, then you should have nothing at all to worry about. Devin
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Do not do it until you are ready. i did it way too soon && wit the waaayy wrong guy and i can't ever get that back.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
It sounds as though you are feeling pressure from either yourself or your boyfriend or society or your friends. Whatever the case, go with your gut which is telling you to wait. Kat
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
If you dont feel ready they dont do it. Wait until your wedding night and make sure he respects your decision to wait.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago

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