Held Hands with Best Friend, Have a Boyfriend.

I have a bf of over 2 years. I have a bestfriend who is a guy. Weve had feelings for eachother before. Today we were in his car & we accidentally locked hands. He was trying to make me pinky promise something & it just happened. It freaked us both out alot. What should I do? Is this cheating?

Final Results

1st.
Comment & Tell me what to do. Please.
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83%
2nd.
Should I tell my boyfriend?
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17%

Comments:

If it was an accident I don't what the big deal is. Accidents happen! Tell your bf, joke about it and then move on with your life. Patti
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
I don't think you should tell your bf until you know whether there is something really there or not. Talk to your best friend and see what he has to say...maybe you are on your way to a new romance! Steph
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I really think that this is a big nothing if you have a boyfriend that you are committed to. However, give some real thought regarding whether you are happy with your current bf -- it may have been more than a slip....it may be your subconscious talking. Mimi
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
So, contiuing from my dilemma since it stoppped me from writing, we're talking about it, and we're both trying to figure out why it happened. We know we can't tell anyone, because the only people we would tell would be eachother (If that makes any sense.) It freaked us out so bad. I can't even remember how it happened really. He had to reming me. We're both honestly so confused right now and I really need help.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

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