he cant handle it

my boyfrien cnt deal with the fact that i was rpe when i was 14 by my stepdad, mostly bc i didnt do anything about it bc i was scared even though it only went on for 2 seconds til i pushe him off... he still took away my virginity and i just know my boyfriend likes me alot less bc of it...

Final Results

1st.
talk to him n work it out
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75%
2nd.
leave him fin some one better.
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25%

Comments:

You deserve the highest level of compassion and understanding relating to the most traumatic experience of your life. I can't imagine your horror. Your boyfriend is thinking more of himself than you. How you being raped is affecting him. It isn't about him! Please go find someone who will show you genuine respect and compassion and not attempt to judge you for this. You deserve so much better. VOE
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