Guy Issues

Ive known this guy since i was in kindergarten we hang out all the time and hook-up, but then in school he acts like nothings going on between us. Sometimes he texts me like crazy and other days I dont hear from him at all. I dont know if I should give up, or let him know how i feel or ignore him

Final Results

1st.
Confront Him
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63%
2nd.
Ignore Him
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38%

Comments:

honestly right now this is the story of my life, i personally havent had the guts to say anything but i think you should because if your going to ignore him you might as well have a reason. so confront him and if it doesn't work out how you planned then find a new guy
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Stop catering to this jerk -- you deserve a real bf and this guy just is not it. Confront him, but only to say IT IS OVER.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You don't need to confront him, but you should discuss with him his behavior and why it is so hurtful to you. Give him a chance to change after your talk --- but only one chance! Lynda
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Ignore him. You deserve to have a real boyfriend and this guy is interested in nothing but a hook up....which is not cool. Dump him, but tell him why as you do it. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
This guy is not worth your time so stop falling for him. Tell him that you don't appreciate his treatment of you at school and then walk away. PRD
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
This does not sound good, especially if you are interested in a real and legitimate (and public!!) relationship. Talk to him and draw some boundaries...he is not really respecting you right now. Yesenia
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
This is so transparent that even Stevie Wonder could see through it. It's the sex. Period. Don't believe me? Then cut off the sex and see how long he hangs around. There's an old song by Bob Seger called Night Moves with lyrics that say "I used her, she used me but neither one cared." Except that now you care. But he doesn't care in the same way. This usually happens with FWB. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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