Gay and in love, with my cousin

I am gay and have known since I was like 8 that I am gay (I am now 19). I have alwayz loved being near my cousin who is actually my second cousin since our moms are cousins. Anyway I am finding myself really attrached to him and he goes out of his way to be near me, too. Do we have a chance??

Final Results

1st.
No, it is wrong wrong wron
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81%
2nd.
Yes, at least explore it
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13%
3rd.
????
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6%

Comments:

Well, I've never been very "right" about relashionships between cousins, I actually think is weird, even if you're second. But if he's kinda liking you and you feel the same, go into it, try. But if he's not feeling the same, just trying to have some fun, get over this crush. And a very important thing: he has to know you're gay!
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Wrong wrong capital W wrong. Dont do it and find someone nice to spend your time with. Seriously!!!
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
you're second cousins? thats fine its not immediate family and your moms are barely related as cousins, let alone you two! i think you should go for it, best of luck hun!xx
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
it is okay to be attracted to somebody the same sex but it is weird that he is your cuzin
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
I just don't feel right about this as it feels very complex and not healthy. Go find a romantic partner who is not already a part of your family. DeeDee
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Uh, no. No no no. This is wrong even if it is somehow legal. Family and love like that should never be all mixed up together.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
This just does not feel right to me and I suspect that it does not feel right to you either. Drop it, and find someone else. But still remain friends with your cousin! Jane
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
No, this is probably not going to happen. Maybe he just likes you as a friend and nothing more. In fact, do you even know if he is gay? Anyway, find another love. Brandon
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
This is a little too twisted even for me. So, no. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I am actually leaning towards the whole ITS WRONG end of things. I don't know -- just feels not right, if you know what I mean.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

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