Friends with benefits

Me and this guy are friends and we have been hooking up for 7 months.. it has been a secret because we're in the same friend group. Things started getting coupley when we did things w/out hooking up. Now he wants to become a better person in his religion forcing our feelings for each other back.

Final Results

1st.
Let him do his thing
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40%
2nd.
Move on with my life
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30%
3rd.
Keep trying to move forward with him
-
20%
4th.
Leave him alone completely
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10%

Comments:

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Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Go back to jus frends til this is all sorted out. He may end up wit you. He may end up wit noone. He may end up with a more relegious gurl then u r.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Go back to being just friends and give this guy some space to figure out his life. Maybe in the future things will work out for you. Brandon
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
You need to let him go but try to still remain friends. He sounds like a really nice guy and maybe you can still be together at a later time. DeeDee
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
You need to decide what you want out of this relationship and whether he can provide what you need.Pulling sex out of the equation is not a bad thing...but you bothhave to be on board. David
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Maybe the two of you can have a serous conversation about your relationship and come to an agreement about the terms. Maybe that means putting an end to the sex end of it, but keeping up the romance. But at least talk it out. Lynda
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
If you're looking for the sex, move on. He's wanting to go a different direction. If you want a better relationship with him, then hang on and see where he's going. It may be without the sex short term but it could turn out to be a deeper relationship in the long run. It depends on what you want compared to what he wants. You can't force him be like you, nor can he force you to be like him. If one of you aren't willing to change for the other, then it's time to end things. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

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