Follow it or Leave it

A few months ago i met this really nice guy at work but i didn't work in the same place he did, i only work there a few times but we clicked instantly. I now work with him and over the time i started to fall for him, i think he might feel the same. but he has a girlfriend...

Final Results

1st.
He has a girlfriend, so stay as friends
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53%
2nd.
Follow your heart
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35%
3rd.
Let him go
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12%

Comments:

Stay friends with him and if he develops feelings for you then he'll break up with his girl friend and go for you. But don't tell him you like him and put him in that uncomfortable position. Good luck! -Amanda
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
The rule is that if he has a girlfriend then you have no right to intrude on that relationship. But, they could break up at any time so you should stay friends and see what happens from there. BradJackson
Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago
If he has a girlfriend then he is just not for you. Sorry, that is just the way it goes. Just be friends! Kat
Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago
Wait on him. Don't be the cause of a breakup and don't encourage him to cheat. If his current relationship is destined to fail, let it fail on its own, don't be the cause. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago

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