Fights!

My boyfriend and I have these stupid fights all the time that arent really fights. He just gets workedup about something and it turns into one.I dont know if I can handle them anymore but I dont want to leave him. We talked about it but its like there is nothing he can do to stop its just who he is.

Final Results

1st.
leave
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75%
2nd.
Suck it up
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25%

Comments:

You know me and my boyfriend fight all the time over music,lost shit,random shit,friends,tust.. it hurts alot when we fight but.. idk i'm not going to leave him just because we fight i mean relationships are not perfect.. when your mad or he is mad when you have nobody to take it out on,.. you tend to take it out on the people closet to you.. but give it time talk to him tell him how you fell and how it hurts you if.. he plays and gets mad and acts like an ass when your talking to him about it leave him.. because he does not respect you.. and will not listen to you that.. is a domenint male..
Added by Tiara Lujan - over 1 year ago
If you are unhappy with this ongoing situation then you aren't ever going to be happy with it. Eventually you will realize that you can find someone perfect who won't do this to you.
Added by Anonymous - about 2 years ago
Something is setting him off and it is probably either his perception that you are trying to control him or that you are resisting his control. These are the usual causes. Without counseling, which will cause you both to confront the problem directly, your relationship will fail. Either bail out or get some help. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 2 years ago
it wil only get worse..
Added by Anonymous - about 2 years ago

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