Fighting with my husband

We have been married for 7 yrs & have started fighting more in the last six month. There is no real reason for it, but everything I do seems to annoy my husband. And, he interprets every thing as an attack on him. All I want at this point is peace and to not feel like I am anxious all the time.

Final Results

1st.
try to quietly talking to hubby about it
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59%
2nd.
go to marriage counseling
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32%
3rd.
see a counselor on my own
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7%
4th.
make a real decision about whether it is time to leave
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2%

Comments:

talk to him with I feel statements. nothing aquisitory
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
tryt o quietyly and reasonabley talk to him about what is bothering him and try to come to some sort of solution to your issues.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Just have SEX! It makes eerrything better!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You must decide if you are truely even able to leave him. Do you have a place to go? Do you have money? Your own car? Once you decide what you can and are willing to do whether that be leave or stay,then talk to him about the situation and what you are willing to do to make it work. Such as spend more time together or not do something you know annoys him. Also be ready with things he needs to do to fix it. If he isn't willing to try or you don't like his answer you will have already established what you personally are capable of doing on your own. Be strong. -MissTess
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Calmly approach your husband without pointing a finger saying YOU take what I say the wrong way, YOU need to do this. No. Talk to him and create an open line of communication. Tell him that you want to get through the rough patch together and the only way is to communicate and to work as a team.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Calmly approach your husband without pointing a finger saying YOU take what I say the wrong way, YOU need to do this. No. Talk to him and create an open line of communication. Tell him that you want to get through the rough patch together and the only way is to communicate and to work as a team.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Calmly approach your husband without pointing a finger saying YOU take what I say the wrong way, YOU need to do this. No. Talk to him and create an open line of communication. Tell him that you want to get through the rough patch together and the only way is to communicate and to work as a team.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Calmly approach your husband without pointing a finger saying YOU take what I say the wrong way, YOU need to do this. No. Talk to him and create an open line of communication. Tell him that you want to get through the rough patch together and the only way is to communicate and to work as a team.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
you should see a counsilor all on ur own and sort of sort thru all of ur feelings so that then maybe you can go to counsiling with hubby.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You should try a marriage counselor. Maybe having a completely third party listen to the both of you will help the two of you to fall back in love again. Kat
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Its going to be difficult but you need to try and speak to him about it. Ofcourse he's going to get defensive and take it as a personal attack but you're going to have to try and get through that and make him understand how you're feeling and the affect he is having on your marriage
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
"For better or for worse". This is one of those worse times. Something is bothering him. He needs to get to the bottom of it. Actually, you both need to get to the bottom of it but especially him. Suggest counseling. Make sure he knows that you aren't looking to lay blame on him or on you but that surely he sees that you two are having a tough time right now. If he outright refuses, then you go. You need someone to help you through this and chatting with a best friend isn't going to cut it. Don't give up. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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