Felon Brother - Report or Not Report

My brother has been hanging out at the local home for the mentally ill (he is normal). He has started 'dating' a woman there, but he lies to her, uses a fake name, etc. And he takes money from her, based on the lies ("I need to make a car payment"). This is a felony because she is disabled.

Final Results

1st.
Call the social worker at the home and tip her off
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42%
2nd.
Warn him once to stop seeing her...crime is crime!!
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33%
3rd.
Call the local police department and have him arrested
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25%

Comments:

If you have the social worker information you can send an anonymous email or letter or phone call. He may be planning to defraud other people in the home and you will be saving them as well! LeeLee
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You at least need to issue one warning to your brother prior to any real action. If he keeps up his felonious ways, then call the local sherrif and let them know.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
This behavior should not be tolerated one more moment of one more day. How would you feel if this was your disabled sister and come creeper was coming around and ripping her off? End it today! Patti
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Call the police department and explain what has been going on and then let them take it from there. Do not be pressured by family who wants to give him a break -- he does not deserve it!!Troy
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
I think that this is just terrible what he is doing and he should be ashamed of himself. You need to let someone know what he is doing becase this is awful and cruel. PRD
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
How many more years do you have to go?
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
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Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
His actions are inexcusable. Here is the ultimatum that you give him. He must pay her back all of the money that he has swindled from her and he must break off his relationship with her completely. If not, you go to both the social worker and the police. Don't back down if he refuses. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You need to warn him and really let him know what is wrong with what he is doing. There are laws in place for a reason! Yesenia
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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