Family problem

so now that my sister moved out and she is going to university it seems like no one is good enough for my mom except my sister.. She always compare me to my sister..

Final Results

1st.
Get a new mom
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53%
2nd.
please comment for any other solution
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47%

Comments:

I agree with the comments, you're mom may not realize the affect she's having on you. So she can't change what she doesn't know is a problem. Have the chat and let her know how you feel and see if things change after that
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Your mother is very proud of your sister for going to university. Any parent would be. Tell your mom that you are happy for your sister also, but that you are starting to feel a little bit ignored. Don't make a big drama thing out of it or your mom will turn off. Keep it low key and make sure not to be critical of your sister. You don't want to appear jealous. Just be calm, friendly, and honest. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Your mom loves you no matter what just give her some time as it's all kinda new to her if she still doesnt change pray and then talk to her
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
tell your mom and say you try your best
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
This has happened in my family....I pointed it out to my mom and she got the picture it really helped things
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Tell your mom about the problems you are having. I'm sure she doesn't realize that she is doing this, but if you tell her that you are having these feelings, then I'm sure she will appreciate the honesty.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
so you cant get a new mother so forget about that option && u need to just be honest with Mother && tell her how you honestly feel && see if she canstart treating u with some respect
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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