double gf

I'm dating a girl already but have been flirtin with another one is this cheating?

Final Results

1st.
stay put and dont flirt
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95%
2nd.
get with both and see how it goes
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5%

Comments:

I have been with my boyfriend (now fiance) for 2 years. Guys try and flirt with me a lot. I dont ever flirt back or hang out with these guys. I dont even have to ask my boyfriend if it would be okay because the way I see it, if you wouldn't be comfortable with your girlfriend-boyfriend doing something then you defiantly shouldn't be doing it. Think about it, if you found out your girlfriend was flirting with another guy, would you be okay with it? Obviously not, so you should follow the rule that if your not okay with her doing something then you defiantly should NOT be doing it either.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
If you and your current girlfriend have an understanding that you are exclusive, then, yes, you are bordering on cheating. If you are not exclusive, then go for it. It's all about respect and integrity. Do you respect your current girlfriend and any promises that you've made to her? If you really want to explore this other prospect, then be up front about it and let your current gf know and break it off. It's the right thing to do. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
It's not necessarily cheating but it could definitely lead to it. Just be carreful with what you do. Now ask yourself this, would you like it if your girlfriend was flirting with someone else behind your back?
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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