Don't Know What To Do!! Pleas Help!! Need Advice!

My bf & i are totally in love We will get married as soon as i graduate. He wants to have sex now & i said i wanted to wait but i really do want to have sex with him I just feel like it would be awkward & painful. he understands & says he will be gentle but I dont want to have to ask him to stop.

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If you want to wait then wait -- it is just that simple -- either he will respect that or he will not -- if he does not, then think about about the relationship.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
if you want to wait stand by your decision girl
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Sex is wonderful and fun, but only if it is with the right person and only if it is the right time for YOU. Only you can make that determination and do not feel pressured. Brandon
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
You sounds very much like you want to wait and I think that cuz u want to wait u should. No pressure! That is not nice!
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
If you want to wait, then wait. It really is just that simple. You should have ultimate control and if your instinct says "not now", then listen to your heart. PRD
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
I am concerned that he is pressing so hard for you to give it up. You seem to have some reservation about it but you also feel obligated to do as he asks. The answer is this. Do it if YOU really want to do it, not because you are pressured or made to feel obligated. Don't be manipulated. That's not how a relationship is supposed to be. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Trust me, it will not be nearly as uncomfortable and awkward as you think it will be...especially if you love each other and take it nice and slow. However, the bigger concern is that you seem somewhat committed to waiting...so don't do it before you are ready. Kat
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago

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