Do I love him?

Im so confused, whn im not goin out with my bf i want him so much it hurts, but whn i am with him i feel lik thers something wrong. theres nothing wrong with him tho,im attracted to him,hes kind,parents love him,does well in school etc. thrs no doubt in my mind tht i love him but shud i BE with him?

Final Results

1st.
I could talk to him bout it...:/
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49%
2nd.
I could stay with him and wait and see
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38%
3rd.
I could be just friends with him, tho he wudnt like it.
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13%

Comments:

Always talk to him about how you feel, even if you think it's bad. Sometimes love is not everything, the relationship has to be good too. Find out what is wrong though, and stay with him until you are SURE about how you feel!
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Stay wit him and see how it goez. he probably totaly love u 2 n so just wait n see wat happens nexxt.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Let the love happen and try not to rush it. If you are really into him and he is a great guy who respect you, the love will fall over you before you know it! BBR
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
You should just be friends with him until you can figure out your feelings. If you figure out that you really do love him, you can always reconnect with him later if he is available. JaneGrant
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
You really need to talk to him about it. Try to do it in a way that does not hurt his feelings, but he has a right to know that you are not there 100% for him. Then, give him the choice about whether to wait for your feelings to blossom or if he wants to try dating another girl. TrishQ
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If theres no doubt in your mind that you love him then wait and see if that feeling of something wrong goes away
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Give it some more time if theres nothing wrong with him you may come around, but you do need to resolve whats causing you to feel that theres something wrong
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
You can love someone and everything about them is fantastic but sometimes there is just no connection or spark in a relationship. And that is noones fault it just happens its not always meant to be
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
To me it sounds like you 'love' him but you're not 'in love' with him, which is fine but for me leans towards a friendship than lover long term. Agree with you though that he's probably not going to want to be friends
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
your heart knows that something is wrong obviously. you cant just bottle it up. either talk about it, or break up. you cant leave it. i know from experience bottling things up or trying to ignore them only makes them 10x worse and isnt the mature way to grow in a relationship.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If you feel that something is wrong, then you know what it is, you just don't want to admit or address it. It isn't going away so you might as well face whatever is going on. Time for you to step up in your maturity.VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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