do i deserve to be happy

Happyness just never finds me. i am getting really annoyed and more like sad that everyone else has a grate life and mine is STUCK. no bf for more than 9 months. my bff just got a new bff. my parents want me to share a room with my sister so they can turn my room into a home ofice for dad.

Final Results

1st.
find a way to get happy
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67%
2nd.
get therapy
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22%
3rd.
?
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11%
4th.
no happyness for you (me)
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0%

Comments:

You sound so unhappy! Get some therapy! My friend did and they even gave her a anti-depressant which helped a ton!
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
You definitely deserve to be happy! I am sorry that things are not working out for you. Try finding something new to do or a hobby where you can be around other people they make you happy.
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Find something that brings joy 2 your heart && focus on that. Everyone has SOMETHING! And stop focusing on the relly small stuff in your life that will mean NOTHING in like a year.
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Everyone deserves hapiness and that means even you. Talk to your frends and see if they can help ya out. Tell them to cheer you up!!
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Even though the things tha tyou mention kind of stink, they are not earth shattering and they will not have a long term negative impact on your life. You need perspective. You need to look at the world in a more positive way and then happiness will come your way. Patti
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Everyone deserves happiness. This includes you! You need to make less of things that are unimportant and make more of things that should really bring you joy. Brooke
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You have the right to take chances, pursue your interests, live where you want, tryout different jobs, learn things you never thought of before. If these things bring you happiness, then great. If not, then change direction and pursue your happiness in other ways. This may sound weird, but pursuing happiness is what causes one to be happy. It's the trip, not the destination. You don't need therapy, you need to plan your next move. What are you going to do next in your pursuit of happiness? Focus on tomorrow, not yesterday. You can do a lot about tomorrow but you can't do anything about yesterday. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You can't find one person in this world who has been happy every minute of their life. All of us have good times and bad times. People lose loved ones for various reasons all the time. Divorce, death, relocation, disagreements are just a few reasons. Nine months without a boyfriend is just a tick of the clock compared to your whole life so don't make more of it than it is. I'm guessing that you are at least 15 so a couple or three years with a sister isn't the end of the world either. In fact, it's great motivation to go to college or get a job and move out when you graduate. Ten years from now you will barely remember these times. I'm going to buck the trend here and say No, you don't deserve to be happy. You DO deserve the right to pursue happiness. CONTINUED
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
If you are really super depressed, then ask your parents to take you to a therapist. You do deserve to be happy. Brooke
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Everyone in the world deserves to be happy and you are no exception. You need to find small doses of joy in your life and focus on that....and then expand it! Yesenia
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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