dated him, now best friend but feeling are still there

me and him have dated six times adding up to 4 months he is my best friend i talk to him about everything! i just started to notice that i still have really strong feelings for him and i want to date him again but he will onhy date if we have sex and im a virgin and i dont want to have sex were 16

Final Results

1st.
explain to him and hope he understands
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86%
2nd.
keep him as my best friend
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14%
3rd.
go for it have sex with him
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0%

Comments:

do NOT give in! if he loves you, he'll understand i've had the same thing happen to me, and its really up to whether he cares enough about you that he'l hav u without sex, or if hes so sex-driven tht he doesnt care also, be careful, some guys are sex driven enough to become forceful, and you do NOT want to end up raped, i kno that sounds rediculous right now, but trust me it can happen...
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
both the comments before this one are spot on! emotional blackmail is manipulative and sick. go find someone who will respect you and your choices
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
WAKE UP! He want's the sex, not you. Give in and you will eventually hate yourself. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
I don't think hes being very understanding at all by saying you have to have sex with him to date him again.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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